Have you ever wondered why we have such good memories after a breakup?

Ever notice that when you are crying your eyes out you can only remember laughing together, taking selfies, trips, long walks, games, parties, romantic evenings?

Why the hell don’t we think of the sleepless nights, the worrying, the wondering, the guessing, the breakups, the hurt feelings, the harsh words?

We suppress the negative and the positive shines through like a full moon.  Even when we do remember the painful parts, the ooey gooey parts still trump the pain.

“But I love him!”  No, you love the man you wanted him to be but as it turned out…he wasn’t.  (Expectations kill us.)

So next time your ex creeps in your mind sporting a halo….say not today devil….not today!